Photography Etiquette at Funeral Services
Photography Etiquette at Funeral Services
While funeral services are designed to help the living memorialize the life of a departed loved one, it is important to use discretion if taking photographs at funerals. Services may be a gathering of family and friends, but it is important to follow a few general rules to ensure that photography is used in a way that is respectful for the deceased and the family.
- Only Photograph with Permission
At a memorial or funeral service, some attendees may want to capture the memory with a picture—even with just a mobile device. Guests should never take photos of the actual service or events surrounding the service without express permission from the family. While it is generally assumed that families would like to keep these events private, those hosting services may want to put up a notice to discourage photography.
- Taking Photos with Friends and Family
Although funerals present a time for grieving, many friends and family may reunite and bond as they reflect on the life of the deceased. Guests may want to get a picture with their relatives—especially if they have not seen each other in a while. If this is the case, do so in a tasteful manner by taking a group photo outside of the actual service as to not interfere with the service.
- Do Not Cause Distractions
Those who are asked to commemorate a service with photographs should make sure to do so in a way that is sensitive to the guests. For example, opt for using natural light instead of distracting attendees with a flash.
In any photography situation, remember to always respect the privacy of the family. When in doubt, check with a family member or the funeral home to learn about specific photography circumstances.